Older Ladies/mothers need your advice...Please no one answered?

Some women (like me for instance) carry a lot of emotional baggage from previous relationships. It's hard to let that go. Sometimes, we're afraid of being hurt and lied to again. Sometimes, when a man does everything right, it makes us feel as if it is a put-on. Being with a woman that has emotional baggage can be really difficult. It will take a lot of time, patience, and understanding to finally make her see that you are not like the others. And yes, a womans menstrual cycle can change her personality for a few days. Good luck.